Benedict Kelly

• Christmas Holiday Lingerie
• Thigh High Boots
• Sheer Lingerie
• Sexy Stockings
• Men’s Lingerie
• Thongs & G-Strings
• Costume Lingerie
• Cupless Open Bra
• Teddy Lingerie
• Sexy Pirate Costume

If you worry whether your lingerie is sexy enough, maybe you are thinking about it from the wrong angle. It is generally accepted that being comfortable with yourself is extremely attractive, so it follows that being comfortable in your lingerie is more attractive than being uncomfortable in it. If the most beautiful woman in the world is uncomfortable in her clothes, she will not appear to be as attractive as the less beautiful woman beside her who is perfectly at ease.

Now, don’t get me wrong – I’m not saying that there is no place for sexy lingerie in a woman’s life. Personally I’m a big fan of sexy underwear and I wear mine as often as possible. However, when shopping for lingerie, you should search for lingerie that you are comfortable in and happy wearing. Lace is beautiful, but badly done, it can really itch. If something starts to itch or is otherwise annoying in the changing room, don’t buy it. Being annoyed for two minutes in the changing room is nothing compared to being uncomfortable for a full working day or a dinner date. If you are uncomfortable after wearing the item for two minutes, put it down and look for something else.

Sexy intimates do not have to be uncomfortable. Nothing feels nicer against your skin than smooth, luxurious silk. Silk is a fabric commonly used in racy lingerie. By itself, silk is not uncomfortable. It’s what the designer does with the silk that can turn it into your worst nightmare. Lace, ribbons, trims of any kind should all be added so as to not irritate your skin in any way. The parts of your body covered by lingerie are the most sensitive and delicate ones – they need to be treated gently, which includes covering them with gentle fabrics.

Apart from physical comfort, your lingerie should provide emotional comfort. You may look awesome in that leather bustier, but your look may be a little too awesome for your comfort. Sexy lingerie is meant to provoke a certain image, but if the image you provoke is not comfortable for you, then go find something else. If you feel that you look like a prostitute and you feel uncomfortable with that look, get out of the outfit and look for something you are comfortable with. It’s your body; wear what makes you feel right. Doubtless, your partner will enjoy whatever intimate apparel you select.

And last but not least, why do you feel uncomfortable? If you think an outfit makes you look like a prostitute and you don’t want to look like a prostitute, fair enough. But if you feel uncomfortable because you think you look like a prostitute and you actually like it, buy the thing! Lingerie is about bringing out the real you – after all, only you need to see it. If you like the look of the woman in the mirror, then jump from your comfort zone and see where it leads. You might be surprised at where you end up.